You're getting way, way off the rails here, is this for real? It's not a big deal at all, and you are blowing this up into something it isn't. You're making him feel bad, or you're trying to. You're guilt-tripping him. And a player might feel bad because you made him feel bad, by imposing your morals on him. That's how that works. And you're not holding society together by so doing that, you're just getting yourself off.
Everything's fine. The only thing that seems to resonate with you is that coaches are in charge, they have the power, and players do as they're effin' told. That's what your morality is really about. Obedience and deference to authority. And nobody's even really flouting it. He just sat out the 2nd half, and let Emory Williams finish it off. Which is great, I'm sure he appreciated the opportunity. One thing's for sure, if someone like Cam Ward ever feels bad about his life, about something like this, it's going to be because people like you wanted him to feel bad, and it finally got to him. Otherwise he has a clean conscience.