1. No birth certificates were require by the school. A parent simply filled out the form. They were not not questioned on The veracity of what they wrote on the form nor asked to provide documentation!
2. wherever the father was, he was listed as dead ! Which I found apquestionable ?
3. Never said I counseled every student in the school. So stop putting in things that I never said !
4. There were three other counselors, so my sample was 1/4 of all the students , a good reflection of the general school population in any sampling !
5. Since you do not believe my statistics, where are yours ? I see none , so you talk a lot but but don't
Present facts.
Question : my Wikipedia quotes the 70 % figure ! Where are your figures ? I see none ! I have always found Wikipedia to be be very factual and accurate !
6. Damm right that the issue is complex. People who blame other people for their problems Create a very complex problem for society, and no amount of federal money is going to solve it ! If they believe that they are helpless victims, then they will never succeed !
Each and every individual must solve his own problems. That is the solution and the only solution.
That is how every other racial and ethnic group over came poverty and prejudice ! Pick any group you
Like Jewish, Irish, Italian , Asian, Hispanic, polish, you name it , including an ever increasing number of black people !
1. Self motivation, 2 study, 3 hard work , and taking personal responsibility for ever success and failure. That is not only my view, but my personal experience as well !
Louis Armstrong's quote : " Born poor, died rich, and never hurt anyone along the way "
Fits my experience perfectly as well, of course with the exception of the fact that I hope I have a few years left ?
So I can at this time say: " I was born POOR ( Extremely poor, you can most likely never even begin to imagine how poor ) faced adversity, worked hard , studied hard, got rich, and never hurt anyone along the way "
Agree or disagree ! Makes no difference to me ! I'll give you the last word !
If you were a counselor in charge of 1/4th of the school population, and didn't see every student in that 1/4th of the population, as is usually the case with school counselors, your sample size is too small to draw a broad sweeping conclusion like you have. And you invalidated any assumption on data by stating that the mother wasn't required to prove anything about the father. They all put deceased? Then you don't know who was lying and who was telling the truth. You didn't state if you bothered to find out if the parent wrote that on the forms you had or if that was put on later due to a district policy. Sorry, but you have bad data.
I haven't provided any data? All I've done is torn apart your flawed data. You haven't presented a single valid fact. Your whole basis of knowledge is that you know what's wrong with the black community because you read some facts on Wikipedia and taught and counseled a few kids in an inner city school.
That's great that you find Wikipedia is to be factual and accurate.You do know ANYONE can edit Wikipedia, and that it is not allowed as a reference source for any credible research work, right? Click the edit link on any wiki. Boom. You can edit it.
But let's address that 70% total you're focusing on. The data is pulled from an ongoing CDC study that covers a very specific question: was the child born to a married parent? If the answer is no, the child is included in the total. That leave a lot of gray area in the data. If the parents are co-habitating and not married, still included. If the parent later marries the father or someone else, the statistics don't change. Mother is financially well to do and chooses to get inseminated or is a lesbian living with a partner? Included. So that 70% you got from the CDC via Wikipedia isn't quite as solid as you think.
Since you want to point out what I missed, why not mention that the other article you quoted? The one you halfway read to find something to validate your point, when I pointed out where your quote came from and a bigger contradictory revelation in the same article? Is it now invalid because it doesn't support your facts?
Regarding your statement 6th statement...so ongoing systematic racism is the fault of the people experiencing it? Fewer opportunities to escape poverty than someone born around when you were are their fault? Crappy schools that don't adequately prepare them for college or the workforce are their fault? You can take responsibility for all of that, work harder than anyone else to get ahead, and still fail. It's a simple fact that everyone cannot be successful. But we as a society can make sure that those who don't succeed aren't destitute. And if you were coding people to mean black, well, do you really think that 50 years is long enough for the effects of redlining to fully go away? For job discrimination in hiring and promotion opportunities to completely cease? For predatory credit practices to end?
"That is how every other racial and ethnic group over came poverty and prejudice ! Pick any group you
Like Jewish, Irish, Italian , Asian, Hispanic, polish, you name it , including an ever increasing number of black people !"
Oh boy.
Irish, Italian, and Polish people can claim to be white unless it suits them to do otherwise, and they did not have laws written to keep them separate but not even close to equal until less than 50 years ago. Jewish and Asian people still experience racism, but it's more subtle and frequently dismissed as racism, even though it really is. Hispanics...are you kidding me? Joe Arpaio. Latinos being questioned if they're here legally. I could go on and on. Even rich black people experience prejudice. And there are still poor people in all of those ethnicities, especially Latinos. The 2nd highest percentage of people living in poverty in correlation to their population in this country are Latinos. Prejudice and poverty still exist in both of those groups.
See, now I get your thought process. You feel that since you succeeded, why can't everyone else? You can't fathom that everyone isn't given the same chance to succeed. You've never experienced racism, so in your mind, it's this lame excuse that people have to explain why they can't succeed. Unfortunately, the America you think exists isn't the same America a nice portion of America experiences.