You could make that argument and I think it would be fair to make. I would hesitate to defend one side or the other though because without having revenue reports its hard to make the stance that one is equal to the other. Sure, Muffet has had great success, and just to be clear I have no dislike toward her I am just challenging her message, but did that national title run generate as much revenue as the back to back elite 8 teams Mike Brey had? I do not know, I could assume that the men did better but that would be my baseless assumption so it meaningless for me to even suggest that.
The University of Notre Dame spent $16,353,482 on women's teams and received $3,263,887 in revenue. On average, University of Notre Dame gave female athletes $17,678 in sports related student aid. There are 13 head coaches for women's teams. They make, on average, $239,924. They are supported by 25 assistant coaches who earn, on average, $74,982.
The University of Notre Dame spent $41,716,145 on men's teams and received $74,755,859 in revenue. On average, University of Notre Dame gave male athletes $20,849 in sports related student aid. There are 12 head coaches for men's teams. On average they make $331,767. They are supported by 32 assistant coaches who earn $176,362 on average.
Those are numbers from
https://www.collegefactual.com/colleges/university-of-notre-dame/student-life/sports/#secMen so it is the only thing I can tangibly base my opinion off of.